1998 to 2001
Selected Dating Diva Columns
(Originally appearing on dating911.com)

• Things I Learned from My Exes, Part V: I Don't Have to Be Here
• The Nebulous Phase
• Flirting 101
• The Electoral College of Love
• Things I Learned from My Exes, Part IV: Keep Your Head on Straight
• Quitting While You're Ahead
• First Dates
• When Should You Sleep with Someone?
• Things I Learned From My Exes, Part III: Going for the Story
• Instafidelity: Don't do it
• Going on Dates
• Phone Etiquette
• The Path to Ex-tasy: Sometimes You Just Have to Be Petty
• Things I Learned from my Exes, Part II: The Prom
• A Little Bit of a Rant: The Nice Guy Myth
• Making Decisions
• Long-Term Plans
• Valentine's Day Creativity
• Things I Learned from my Exes, Part I: Don't Be So Defensive
• Honesty Isn't Always the Best Policy

1997

• The Dating Rules